Do a some research first Preparation is key. Encourage your girlfriend to talk about her dad. What does he do for a living? What are his int...
Do a some research first
Preparation is key. Encourage your girlfriend to talk about her dad. What does he do for a living? What are his interests? Who is his favourite actor and cricketer? You don’t have to become an expert — he will know — just gain some basic knowledge.
First impressions are best
Make a great impression from the word go. Greet her father with a firm handshake. Flash a friendly smile. This shows
you are a mature adult, one who can take care of his daughter. Start with calling him ‘Sir’ and then maybe gradually move on to the more informal ‘uncle’.
Be comfortable. At least pretend
When you are around her father act assured and comfortable. He does not want his girl to be going out with a push over.
Also keep in mind that if you take this act too far, you will appear arrogant. Speak clearly and keep eye contact.
Make smart conversation
This is where your research comes in. Get the conversation going, drop in what you know about the subject but make it clear you are keen to know more. Ask him questions and listen with interest. He will be flattered by your enthusiasm and want to share his knowledge.
Treat his little girl right
This is important. Treat your girlfriend with respect. Give her a protective hug or peck on the cheek in his presence, but don’t show any amorous affection. Even the slightest hint that your intentions are less than honourable is equal to waving a red rag at a bull.
His rules are not meant to be broken
It’s not uncommon for father’s to be over protective of their daughters, especially when it comes to dating. so, it’s vital that you earn his trust. Always obey his rules.
Unless you are following his example, never drink, smoke or curse around him. Be on time, especially if your date has to abide to a curfew. Treat his concerns with respect and he will gradually begin to see what a fine, upstanding young man you are
Preparation is key. Encourage your girlfriend to talk about her dad. What does he do for a living? What are his interests? Who is his favourite actor and cricketer? You don’t have to become an expert — he will know — just gain some basic knowledge.
First impressions are best
Make a great impression from the word go. Greet her father with a firm handshake. Flash a friendly smile. This shows
you are a mature adult, one who can take care of his daughter. Start with calling him ‘Sir’ and then maybe gradually move on to the more informal ‘uncle’.
Be comfortable. At least pretend
When you are around her father act assured and comfortable. He does not want his girl to be going out with a push over.
Also keep in mind that if you take this act too far, you will appear arrogant. Speak clearly and keep eye contact.
Make smart conversation
This is where your research comes in. Get the conversation going, drop in what you know about the subject but make it clear you are keen to know more. Ask him questions and listen with interest. He will be flattered by your enthusiasm and want to share his knowledge.
Treat his little girl right
This is important. Treat your girlfriend with respect. Give her a protective hug or peck on the cheek in his presence, but don’t show any amorous affection. Even the slightest hint that your intentions are less than honourable is equal to waving a red rag at a bull.
His rules are not meant to be broken
It’s not uncommon for father’s to be over protective of their daughters, especially when it comes to dating. so, it’s vital that you earn his trust. Always obey his rules.
Unless you are following his example, never drink, smoke or curse around him. Be on time, especially if your date has to abide to a curfew. Treat his concerns with respect and he will gradually begin to see what a fine, upstanding young man you are
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